Often times people ask
this question before they engage themselves into a big project or any step of
great achievement. They say, ‘what if it doesn’t work out?’ this is not to mean
that you just have to do things anyhow they come but the irony is that that
question, ‘what if it doesn’t work out’ has made many people divorce themselves
from their ‘treasures’.
Let me break the ice
in this way, it is very essential that you interrogate everything and anything
you would want to do before you do it but at the same time, be positive and
make sure you get what you determined in your mind to get no matter the
opposition.
The people who have
achieved great things in life have had told friends about their ideas and
dreams, some got into the boat and today are billionaires while others thought,
‘what if it doesn’t work out’ and even up to today they are not as wealth as
they could have been had they believed positively. For instance, Mark
Zukerberg. He invited 5 people to his Harvard dorm room years ago to discuss a
business opportunity – Facebook. Only two people showed up and they got in,
today those two people are billionaires; Dustin Moskovitz ($10.7 billion) and
Eduardo Saverin ($7.4 billion). I wonder what it will be like for the other
three that were also invited but didn’t show up. There is nothing more
expensive than a closed mind. The mind is like a flower, it only functions when
it is opened. Perhaps the other three were saying what if it doesn’t work out.
Sometimes we doubt
because of what we hear from friends and relatives, in many instances they will
not ask you to say what if it doesn’t work, they will actually tell you bluntly
and sometimes harshly that, ‘it will never work out’ and as we hear such
negative suggestions we also begin to think, ‘what if for sure it doesn’t work
out?’
At one point my friend
Stephen Nyoni once told me, “whatever you choose to do you must be ready to pay
the price and if along the way someone comes to help you, then they are doing
you a favor.” In effect he was saying, people are not automatically supposed
to help you or encourage you, telling you positive things. They may even tell
you that it will never work. People have the right to criticize you and pour
out what they think but it will be sad if you will act according to what
everyone else says to you. You must believe as an individual that it will work.
Look, even you, you
have the right to think about the possibilities of it not working out BUT ‘what
if it actually works out?’ Things are possible as we think they are. You
have a lot to live for but it will not just come on a silver platter, you must
have the stamina to believe against all odds that it will work out. Believe
that it will work out. The world doesn’t owe you anything, as a matter of fact
if you die without contributing anything to this world, then you would have
stolen from those that did.
Your existence to this
world is very critical, every negativity may be thrown at you to make you doubt
that it can work out but there is a possibility of the future with this
question, “What if it works out?”
I await to see you at
the top. I believe in the possibility of it working out, It will work out just
give it a try.
Olly Moonga
Thoughts Are
Things
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